I suppose i m self centered and unstable just because i don’t like to party late nights with the popular kids and a bitch overall

  • Magnus ÅhallAEnglish
    3•5 days ago

    Exactly this. I am a very social person when among people, but pay a price for it afterwards, as I’m drained of energy.

    Introverts gains energy by being by them selves. Extroverts needs to be with other persons to gain energy,

    That said, most people are not neccessarily completely one or the other.

    I understand where the misconception comes from though. Seems likely that being introvert often leads to not be very social since you’re “punished” for it by your own mind.

    • @frickineh@lemmy.worldEnglish
      3•5 days ago

      I struggle with being social because I’m usually so worn out by work, but my friends are honestly the best - they know I have a couple of hours in me, and they don’t mind at all if I kind of wander off to read or lay down for 20 minutes to recharge. Sometimes they want to do the same thing, sometimes they keep doing whatever we’re doing until I get back.